Generic apps felt built for people with more spare energy than I have. Even the ads on those other apps had started to sound like personal insults. The whole thing felt like auditioning for a show that wasn't even casting. My old roommate kept sharing success stories from this disabled dating site and the people I've met actually want the same things. We'll see where the story goes, but for once I'm genuinely optimistic. Old habits die hard, but this one retired gracefully and without a fight.